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If you are divorced, you know that the bars and clubs are not an option, and let’s face it, how often do you meet someone in a grocery store. There are always fix ups, but those can fall along the, don’t mix business and friendship motto. And, then there is the internet, where the options seem to be limitless and frankly, most of them suck.
I shouldn’t knock internet dating, after all, that is where I met my ex husband. Okay, maybe I should, but it does seem to work when you pull all the bad weeds out of the pile, which leaves a handful of decent prospects. Dating in general is daunting, isn’t it?
The other night, a friend of my mother’s asked me to fix her daughter up, who is going through a divorce; an ugly messy divorce. Her mother’s exact words, “She’s not looking to date, just someone to talk to.” My exact response, “She needs a coach or a therapist, not a date. She isn’t ready to date.”
I have had several clients that want to be fixed up, because they feel they should be dating. Their ex is dating, so they should be too. After all, isn’t this a competition? NO! There is a right time and a wrong time for dating, and if you date at the wrong time, the end result is disaster.
But, this got me thinking. What is needed is a place where divorcees can meet divorcees. A place where divorced men and women can mix, mingle and maybe meet. A place that offers advice about dating with children, seminars and help for those that want to get out there but just don’t know how to do that after being a couple for 30 years.